"We can do no great things. Only small things with great love. " Mother Theresa

April 25, 2012

From Sympathy to Compassion to Action

Sympathy: an extension of empathetic concern, or the perception, understanding and reactions to the distress or need of another human being.
Compassion: a virtue in which the emotional capacities of empathy and sympathy for the suffering of others are regarded as part of love itself.
Action: Something done as to accomplish a purpose.
I recently heard of some research indicating there is a compassion gene. I couldn’t tell you done where or by whom because I never remember those things, but I’m sure you could google it. When I heard about the study, I knew that I may have inherited genes from those that don’t have it.  Although sometimes painful, compassion comes naturally for me. But often this is where it stops. The situation saddens me, I desire change, but I take no action.
Sunday night I started a new book, Barefoot Church Primer: An eight-week guide to serving through community by Brandon Hatmaker. And yes, I am reading all things Hatmaker these days.
Brandon references James. Not a verse or chapter, but the whole book. I began to read, but let’s be honest, it was 9:30 and I’m not going to make it through that whole book. So I resolved to read James 1 and pray about what it is telling me. The verse I am very familiar with in this passage is
James 1:27: Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.
But this time something different stood out:
James 22-26: Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it- he will be blessed in what he does.
 I realized later that this was also a scripture read during church that morning, is that why it stood out? I don’t know. But I read it again: Do not merely listen to the word…Do what it says.
That is a charge. I prayed about what this means and I drifted off to sleep. About an hour later I startled awake from a dream in fear. I hesitate to write it down because it was so painful. I hesitate but feel I should.
I am walking down the street of a foreign country with Sarah Bess. I have no idea which country, but the people look Asian and we are in a market of sorts. I am filled with joy at having this special one on one time with her. We even hold hands at times. It is Blissful. I turn my back…for literally a second…to look at a stall selling jewelry, and she is gone. Fear sets in. I frantically look around and I see her talking to a young girl. They are holding hands. Behind them I see an older woman talking to a man. And instantly I Know. With every part of my being, I Know. She is trying to sell my daughter to this man. I run over, grab Sarah Bess and glare at this woman as I back away clinging to my daughter.
I wake in fear. Begging the Lord almost to leave me alone. I can’t think about girls just like Sarah Bess all over the world in this situation and not Do something.
So I am resolving to move beyond sympathy and compassion to doing. I had already signed this petition and I beg you to as well:  IJM Justice Petition. It only takes a moment, please think of your daughter, your niece, your friend. Do something.
Some other simple steps you can take today:
1.    Become an IJM Prayer Partner  
2.   Donate to International Justice Mission
3.   Educate yourself by reading:

Some more complicated steps you can begin to consider as a family:
1.    Think about what you are buying, where it came from and who made it

2.    Shop at local stores or stores where you feel confident the workers are making a living wage (see some links below)

3.    Download the fair-trade app here.

4.    Pray. Pray with Boldness. For there to be no more child slaves. No more slaves at all.

Some places to shop:
Sole Hope                           Noonday                      Raven and Lily
 Sole Rebels                       Be the Joy                   Deans Beans
Beads for Life                      Open Arms Shop          Global Girlfriend
Fashion Able                       Groobs                        Come Together Trading     
          


April 22, 2012

Easter. The world is waiting and our children are watching.

Gabre was SO happy we kept her up past her nap to hunt for eggs since she totally gets why you would put a plastic egg into a bucket with candy in it that she can’t eat.  :o)

Now she sees how fun this is. And yes, she is not wearing shoes. That is how she rolls.

How sweet is that?

These two were way into the Easter egg hunt fun from the start.

Easter also includes this if you are as lucky as we are to have a Sudie and Papa Rob

And this.


All ready for the Easter Bunny


He (She?) came!

Our Easter finest. Time for church.
The Easter season for us was filled with much joy …what’s not to love, there’s Egg Hunting, Egg Dying, Candy, more Egg Hunting and don’t forget the bunny that brings you stuff! Please don’t get me wrong, I treasure these special memories with my children. I’m just not sure I am teaching the right things about Easter. I’m just not sure I am living Easter like I believe Easter.
My first clue that I was not modeling what Easter is all about was this: Sarah Bess said, “I wish Easter wasn’t on Sunday so we didn’t have to go to church”. That’s right. Church is getting in the way of her fun. And I don’t think she is the only one.  
So, I have been asking myself, what does it mean to celebrate Easter? What should I be teaching these little people that are watching me so carefully?
Easter Monday I read this by Richard Rohr, “God forbids us to accept “as-it-is” in favor of “what-God’s-love-can-make-it.” Because of the promise of the Resurrection of Jesus we realistically can believe that tomorrow can be better than today. There is a future created by God, and much bigger than our own efforts…That is why a true Christian has to be an optimist. In fact, if you are not an optimist, you haven’t got it yet.”
That is brutal for all of us that can be cynical. It is not always easy to be an optimist. In fact sometimes, it is hard to look at the world today and see God’s love prevail. It is hard to be optimistic when we hear stories like this: Ethiopian Government is poisoning the water in the Gambela Region to kill insurgents. REALLY? How can this happen in our world? This news is heartbreaking and won’t make our national news. It is hard to be optimistic with 147 million orphans in the world.  It is hard to be optimistic in a consumer church culture where Christians expect the best band and a coffee shop for the one hour they devote to God each week.
But that is not the story of the Resurrected Christ. I must believe in the Resurrected Christ. I DO believe in the Resurrected Christ. That His love can prevail even over this. That’s right, Love Wins. But believing is not enough. I must do. I must give. I must surrender. I must Love Well and Live Differently.
What I know now is this. Less. I don’t need to have the most, be the best, or reach the top. It doesn’t matter what I own or how I’m perceived… In order for Jesus’s kingdom to come, my kingdom will have to go. …The world is waiting. Our kids are watching. Time is wasting. Are we willing?  (J. Hatmaker, 7: A Mutiny Against Excess)

April 2, 2012

March Gratitude

Our thankful list quote this month is beautiful "Holy joy lies in the habit of murmuring thanks to God for the smallest of graces."

We thank you God for:

- St. Patrick's Day
- Tarheels
- Trees
- Fried Chicken
- Quiet Time: This one seems to be on there every month, wonder why the trend, and who must be repeating it: :o)
- Chicken Fried: While some may feel this is redundant, a certain boy thought it was very important that it was different
- Superbowl: yes, everyone we know this did not happen in March, but 5 year olds seem to still be thankful)
- Trip to Great Wolf Lodge
- Time to pray
- Doctors
- Sun
- Vehicles
- Colors
- Food
- Let Love Grow: This is a quote on another five year old's t-shirt. She was thankful for it.
- Bounce Houses
- Grace for small things
- naps
- ZOE ministry (http://www.zoeministry.org/)
- China
- Ethiopia
- US
- Family
- Created for Care Retreat ( http://createdforcare.org/)
- Books
- Sarah Bess's prayers that are amazingly inspiring and thoughtful
- Jesus
- Dogs
- Finn McMissle: Is it just me or do others smile that in one evening we are thankful for Jesus, dogs and a fictional cartoon character from Cars 2?
- Dying Easter Eggs
- Sister Hugs